The Disobedient slave
dis·o·be·di·ent/ˌdisəˈbēdēənt/
Adjective: Refusing to obey rules or someone in authority.
A slaves's nature is to obey her Master. Yet there are some who disobey; who consciously make the decision to go against her Master's command or rules. What's the point? Essentially, misbehaving in this sense is a form of topping from the bottom. Using such undesirable actions to get your way turns the relationship into a game and proves true intentions. When topping from the bottom occurs, where is the power exchange? The sub or slave is ultimately not giving up anything and is actually resisting her Master's attempts to guide, teach and control.
I see a purposely disobedient slave as one who is only looking out for herself. When you enter any type of M/s relationship, be it a collar of protection, a school collar, or an official collar, you commit to following the rules. You commit to obeying any commands. You commit to behaving in all forms.
One can most definitely say that disobedience can work as a form of attention seeking. I cannot stress enough how that's the wrong form of attention any slave should want from a Master. It's negative and brings stress to any and all involved. What really makes a slave stand out (in a positive way) in my opinion, is behaving. You do what You are told without question. You take pride and pleasure in knowing that whomever holds the other end of your leash is happy with your actions.
For those of you who see this as a game; as an "easy" way to be dominated, please know it's not. There are those of us who submit with the entirety of our hearts and souls. There is no such thing as an easy collar that doesn't end with someone getting hurt.
posted with the permission of Master Darius
Bravo :)
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